Different ways to do this work
Most coaching is sold as transformation and most of it is marketing.
What I offer is quieter and more honest. A structured space to think clearly, hear yourself differently, and stop performing certainty. Different rooms make different kinds of movement possible. One-on-one, teams, peer groups, facilitated conversations.
What is useful depends on what you are actually carrying right now. Choose what fits where you actually are.
How this work can come together
These areas are not meant to be separate tracks. Depending on the situation, the work may involve one-on-one coaching, team coaching, peer groups, facilitation, the Energy Leadership™ Index assessment, or a combination.
Some people come with a specific question or decision. Others are in a longer period of change, pressure, or complexity. The structure depends on what is actually needed, not on forcing everything into a fixed program.
The work is flexible, but not unstructured. We begin by understanding what is happening, what kind of support would be useful, and what format makes the most sense.
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One-on-One and Team Coaching
Dedicated space to think, reflect, and move with more intention
One-on-one coaching offers a private space to step back from the pace of daily life and look more honestly at what is happening. This can be helpful when you are sorting through a decision, feeling stretched thin, rethinking your direction, or wanting to understand the patterns that keep showing up in your work or life.
Team coaching brings that same reflective process into a shared setting. It supports teams that want to communicate more honestly, work with greater trust, and understand how they are operating together beneath the surface of everyday tasks.
This work is useful when people need more than a quick conversation. They need space, structure, and a thoughtful process for seeing what is really going on.
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Peer Groups
A structured space for honest conversation and shared perspective
Peer groups offer a facilitated, ongoing space where people meet with a consistent group over time. The focus is not advice-giving or quick problem-solving. It is shared experience, thoughtful reflection, and the kind of perspective that is hard to access alone.
These groups can be especially meaningful for people who are carrying responsibility, navigating change, or wanting a more honest place to think out loud. Over time, members often feel less isolated, more supported, and more able to see their own situation with a wider lens.
The group becomes a kind of personal board of directors, not because everyone has answers, but because honest reflection in the right room can change what feels possible.
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Facilitation
Support for conversations that need structure, trust, and depth
Facilitation helps groups have better conversations, especially when the topic matters and the usual way of talking is not enough. This can include retreats, leadership meetings, peer forums, team resets, strategic conversations, or moments when a group needs to pause and work through something together.
My role is to design the structure, guide the pace, and create the conditions for people to participate more honestly and productively. A strong facilitation process helps the room stay focused, hear more than one perspective, and move toward something useful without forcing agreement too quickly.
This work supports teams, organizations, and peer groups that want more meaningful dialogue, stronger trust, and a clearer way to move forward together.
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Energy Leadership® Index Assessment
A practical assessment for understanding how you show up under pressure
The Energy Leadership® Index, or ELI, is an assessment that helps make visible the patterns shaping how you think, respond, decide, and relate to others. It is especially useful when you want a clearer picture of how you operate in everyday life and how that may shift under stress.
For many people, the ELI gives language to something they have sensed but not fully been able to name. It can reveal where energy is being drained, where reactions have become automatic, and where new choices may be available.
The assessment is available as an individual debrief or as a 360 process for leaders who want broader feedback from the people around them.
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Leadership Development
A more grounded way to lead yourself and others
Leadership development is not only for people with a formal title. It is for anyone carrying responsibility, making decisions, influencing others, or trying to stay steady when expectations are high.
This work looks at how you lead in real life: how you communicate, make decisions, respond under stress, handle conflict, and carry responsibility. It also explores the inner patterns that shape how you show up when things feel demanding or unclear.
The goal is not to perform leadership better. It is to build the self-awareness, steadiness, and judgment needed to lead in a way that is more sustainable and more aligned with who you are.
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Energy and Capacity
A practical look at what supports you, drains you, and helps you sustain your life
Energy and capacity work focuses on how you function day to day. It looks at the patterns, habits, environments, and expectations that shape your ability to think clearly, recover, make decisions, and stay connected to yourself.
People often come to this work when they feel depleted, overextended, or aware that the way they have been operating is no longer working. The focus is not generic wellness or productivity. It is understanding your real life and what your system needs in order to carry it with more steadiness.
Together, we look at what is taking energy, what is restoring it, and what small shifts could create more capacity over time.demands without running themselves down.
In more complex moments
Some of this work takes place in the context of serious health diagnoses, caregiving, grief, identity shifts, or other moments when life becomes more complex than usual.
In these situations, the focus often shifts away from goals and toward making sense of what is happening, navigating decisions, and finding a way to move through what cannot be neatly solved.
This work does not replace therapy, medical care, or clinical support. It offers a grounded space for reflection, steadiness, and meaning-making alongside the realities someone is already facing.
From Our Clients
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I work with people who are capable, responsible, and often doing well from the outside, but who have reached a point where something no longer fits the way it used to.
This can look like burnout, a life transition, more responsibility than you know what to do with, or a quieter sense that how you have been living or working is not sustainable anymore. Most of the people I work with are sitting with questions that do not have simple answers, and want real space to think clearly about what comes next.
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Coaching is a space to slow down and think more clearly about what is happening in your life or work.
It is not advice, and it is not a set of answers. I work as a thinking partner, helping you stay with what is actually going on long enough to understand it more fully. From there, decisions often become less tangled and the next step easier to recognize.
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A first conversation is usually the best place to begin.
You do not need to arrive with a fully formed goal or a polished explanation of what is going on. Most people simply know that something feels off, heavier than it used to, or harder to sort through alone. We use that conversation to look at what you are navigating and whether one-on-one coaching, facilitation, peer groups, the Energy Leadership Index, or another form of support might be the best fit.
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Each session is a focused conversation shaped around what feels most present or pressing.
We usually begin with what is asking for attention, then look more closely at what may be underneath it, what patterns are showing up, and what may need to shift. The work is structured, but not rigid. Over time, people often find they are thinking more clearly, responding differently, and making decisions with more steadiness.
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That is often exactly the work.
Sometimes what looks like burnout is really a sign that something has stopped fitting, whether in your work, your responsibilities, or the life you built without quite meaning to. This does not have to turn into a dramatic search for purpose. It usually starts smaller. What feels off right now? What matters more than it used to? What are you still carrying that was never really yours? Making room for those questions can change how you move forward.
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Peer groups are facilitated, structured conversations built around shared experience and perspective. Group coaching includes more direct guidance from me as the coach, along with reflection and discussion.
In peer groups, the value comes less from coaching or teaching and more from the quality of the conversation, the structure that holds it, and the perspective that emerges when people reflect together. Both can be valuable. They simply offer different ways of working.
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Lifequake peer groups are small, facilitated groups for people moving through a real shift, at work or in life, who do not want to carry it entirely on their own.
You do not need to have it figured out before joining. You need to be willing to bring what is actually true. The group meets over time, not once, because real perspective takes repetition to build.
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The Energy Leadership® Index assessment, or ELI, is an assessment that makes visible the patterns shaping how you think, respond, and relate to others, especially under pressure.
For most people, it gives language to something they have already sensed but could not quite name. It can show where energy is being drained, where a reaction has become automatic, and where a different choice might actually be available. It works well as a standalone tool or as part of ongoing coaching, and it is available as an individual debrief or a 360, for leaders who want the added perspective of people around them.
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That depends on what you need right now, and it is usually clearer after one conversation than before it.
Some people want a private space to think something through on their own. Others want to hear how a small group of people are making sense of something similar. Some want a concrete starting point, which is where the ELI tends to be most useful. There is no wrong door. There is just the one that fits what you are actually carrying.
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The clearest test of how someone leads is not when things are calm. It is when something serious, a diagnosis in your family or a caregiving role you did not choose, asks more of you than you have ever had to give.
That is usually where people either default to old patterns or find something steadier in themselves that they did not know was there. My work is to help you find the second one. It does not replace your medical team. It is a place to stay connected to your own judgment and your own steadiness while you carry something real.
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II do not see coaching as a way to fix people or rush them toward an answer.
Most people already sense what is not working. What is missing is the space to stay with it long enough to actually understand it, especially during burnout, a transition, or real uncertainty, when it is easy to move too fast or stay stuck in a pattern that no longer fits. My role is to help you slow that down and make sense of what is changing. I draw on Core Energy™ Coaching and the Energy Leadership™ Index as tools inside that process, but the work itself is about learning to respond to your life in a way that feels steadier and more intentional.
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Yes. I am an ICF certified coach and a Certified Professional Coach through the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching, an Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner, a COR.E Leadership Dynamics Specialist, a COR.E Transitions Dynamics Specialist, and a certified Cancer Journey Institute coach.
I am also certified in facilitation through IFO, which shapes how I design and hold peer group spaces. My background includes years in corporate and scientific settings, which shows up in how I think and how I work. Still, the credentials matter less than whether the work feels grounded and useful for what you actually need.
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Confidentiality is a core part of the work.
In one-on-one coaching, everything is held in confidence and guided by professional ethics. In peer groups, confidentiality is a shared agreement across the whole group. What gets said in the room stays in the room.
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No. Coaching is not a formula, and people come with very different needs, circumstances, and questions.
What I can offer is a thoughtful, structured space to slow things down, look more honestly at what is happening, and work in a way that is grounded in your reality. From there, the aim is not a promised outcome, but a more useful way of moving forward.
Your questions answered
Let’s find the right starting point
You do not need to sort through the options alone. In a first conversation, we can look at what is happening, what you are hoping to support or shift, and which path may be most useful.